Archive for May, 2009

Studying again

I have been working for 3 years since graduation… I worked at several places including at my current job…

Now I have to study again for a diploma..The diploma duration is 6 months..

Somehow, after several years of working and suddenly need to study again..You’ll feel the laziness…

But I’ve got  no other option…I have to wake up and kick off my pace to study again…

Now I understand why it is so hard to study again after working…

Hopefully will enroll in Masters of Business Administration in another 3-4 years 🙂


Champions League Final:Man Utd VS Barca

Good luck Manchester United, glory glory Man Utd, keep the reds flag flying high!

Man United is the 2009 EPL Winner

Horray,horray, the 18th title equalling Pool’s 18th…

The pic above was taken around 1994-95

Job Satisfaction

I was asked a question by a consultant “what is my main intention in working?”

I  answered “I’m looking for job satisfaction”.

Talking bout job satisfaction, the issue is always related to job satisfaction vs money.. Which one will you choose? A job that gives satisfaction or a high pay job? Somehow it is similar to the reality tv show “For Love or Money”.

Experience is the best guru. When I was working for Astro, I was paid a reasonable salary, not bad for a fresh guy…including OT and everything.. But I didn’t enjoy my job, mainly due to shift working which my body couldn’t adapt to the environment although I was there for almost a year also. In the end, I resigned.

A high salary seems attractive to everyone..Even me, I admit it. However, doing a job based on money oriented only without interest won’t be sustainable. At one part, you will feel depressed with your job. You are thinking of jumping again…looking for quick solution.

Doing a job based on interest will be sustainable. You will enjoy doing your work although your pay is lesser than your previous job. A job based on interest will give satisfaction to us . Most important, we are happy with it..

Money is important however money can’t buy you everything

Tips Mencari Wanita/Isteri

Jangan nak pening-peningkan kepala…Kenapa nak pening-peningkan kepala kerana wanita? Sepatutnya dia memberi kita +ve influence not -ve influence…

Look out for woman who doesn’t give you much problem…not giving you headache..what i mean is…

I’ll give you an example..

Your gf tells u she wants to go out with a guy, and the guy likes her..But she tells you that she’s going out as friend only…You answered with your ego okay you can go out but please behave yourself… That’s what your head tells her.. But in your heart, you are jealous, mad…She’s giving you problem and headache..Dia tak memberi ketenangan jiwa pada kamu…

Carilah yang memberi ketenangan jiwa pada kamu…kerana wanita yang betul-betul sayangkan kamu tidak akan menghuru-harakan jiwa kamu…

Dan carilah yang bijak..kerana kamu tak perlu begitu bersusah-payah menerangkan perkara yang remeh temeh kepada dia yang mungkin mencabar kesabaranmu

If You Were A Boy

Listening to this song “If I Were A Boy – Beyonce & R.Kelly (Remix)”

the lyrics is touching..but i want to stress on R. Kelly’s part:

If you were a boy
then girl you’d understand
you need to stop listening to your friends
love, respect and trust your man

So I go to clubs with the guys
and sometimes flirt with the girls
I should be able to roll out
as long as Im coming home to you
and give you the world

But you are not a boy,
so you dont have a clue (ey)
How I work and pay the bills
girl everything I do is for you

But you are not a boy,
so you can’t understand
You are not a perfect woman
and I am not a perfect man

Girl, if you’d understand

i’m sure you’d realized how much I care about you

How much I think about you

And I hope you do feel the same way

Girl, if you’d understand

How much I want to be by your side everytime

You’d realized how much honest and sincere am I

Please take care of me for the rest of my life

The Beauty of Emotions Sharing

Ultimately, our fear is of the consequences of showing our emotions – how will people react? Some men can feel under the additional burden of believing that displaying their emotions will make them appear less masculine.

They can feel emotionally trapped by traditional ‘macho images’. These images seem to dictate that some emotions are ‘feminine’ such as fear, anxiety and sadness, and that these can only be shown in restricted measures.

If showing our emotions leaves us feeling exposed and vulnerable, then why do it? There are two main incentives to do so; the first is the effect on us and the second is the effect on our personal lives.

Releasing our emotions can act as a safety valve – relieving inner tensions, like steam out of a kettle. It relieves the pressure of holding them in or disguising them.

Guarded emotions in a relationship can lead to misunderstandings about how you’re really feeling. Lack of visible emotions can be taken as a lack of feeling.

This situation can certainly hinder a successful relationship. What can be done? For people in real difficulty there are steps they can take to help themselves.

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