Archive for December, 2008

Dulu dan Sekarang

Sewaktu berkawan semuanya indah…Yang indah menjadi seperti surga…Yang buruk menjadi indah….

Tapi kini bila tidak lagi berkawan…

Semuanya menjadi nista….

Yang indah menjadi keburukan, Yang indah menjadi haram…Yang buruk adalah seburuk-buruk keburukan…

Di mana keikhlasan?

Things happen for a reason, biarlah aku terjemahkan…Semua perkara berlaku ada sebabnya…

Lu fikirlah sendiri….


Gay Movie Trip

Menonton cerita ini bersama Afgan wannabe jam 9.10pm tadi…

Sewaktu membeli tiket, penjual tiket juga gelakkan kami..macam gayboy tengok movie sama-sama..orang lain tengok dgn couple masing-masing… Malu dibuatnya (Baca dengan nada seperti Iklan Polident)

Anyway tetap layan movie ni, ok la not bad ..3 out of 5…

Gayboy rules!

Talentime song

talked to my friend today, she mentioned that she entered a talentime competition during high school.  Ok not bad…I asked further what song she sang in the competition..She said she sang “Rick Price-Heaven Knows”, one of the most popular song for talentime competition…

I wasn’t sure what type of song is that so I youtubeD it.. The lyric is kinda meaningful…

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A Famosa Resort

Date:18-21 December 2008

Where:As above

Why: Office workshop

Pictures:Refer below

p/s -After being a friend for quite some time, does it give you any right to call your friend a stupid lierrrrr?

Right age to marry

Not long ago, a young couple named David and Cassandra came to see me for premarital counseling. As these fresh-faced lovers sat down on the couch at our first session, they gazed at each other with puppy eyes and sat so close I thought one might end up on the other’s lap.  “Dr. Warren,” David said, “we’re here because we’ve announced our engagement – and our parents think we’re too young to get married.” They gave each other syrupy smiles and squeezed each other tightly.   “Well, how old are you?” I asked.  “I’m twenty,” he said, “and Cassandra is eighteen.” “But why does age really matter anyway?” Cassandra chimed in. “We love each other, and we’re right for each other. Everything in our hearts tells us we should be together.”

We talked a while, and I remained as open-minded as possible. After all, occasionally even eighteen-year-olds can be surprisingly mature. But the truth became clear when I asked some specific questions, such as how David envisioned his life in ten years.   “I’ve always been good at art,” he replied, “so I’ll probably end up in the art field somewhere. But I’m not really sure what I’ll choose to do for a career or where we might live or any of that. All I know is that if Cassandra and I are together, we’ll be fine. We can make it through anything.” (Related:  Right age for dating someone younger)

I was beginning to suspect this relationship was long on fantasy and short on reality. So I asked them both to describe themselves, their strengths and weakness, their personalities, their style of communication, and I received more vague responses. They fumbled for answers and always returned to their “love-will-see-us-through” theme.  Finally I said to them, “Look, as a psychologist I try to tell the truth as clearly as I know how, and the truth is this: All those warm, tender feelings you have for each other are important and necessary for marriage. But it’s even more important for you to know who you are as individuals, to be clear about where you want to go in life before you make a commitment as critical and all-encompassing as marriage.”

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Lihat dialog di bawah..

Mawi: Aku tengok kau ni ada gaya la nak jadi jutawan satu hari nanti…

Nabil: Eh, tak la…mana ade…aku biase je…

Ataupun Nabil tidak menjawab tapi hanya tersengih…

Pernah dengar ayat di atas?Biasa bukan…sebab dalam masyarakat kita, memang begitu biasanya…

Sejak aku bercadang untuk ke Bandung ni, aku biasa juga berkawan dengan warga Indonesia…Banyak yang menarik juga pasal mereka ni..

Ini adalah salah satu perbualan aku bersama mereka…

Aku: Kamu kuliah apa?

Indah: Aku kuliah pergigian

Aku: Wah, dokter ya..aku doakan kamu bisa jadi seorang dokter gigi yang sukses ya…

Indah: Amin…Ya Allah, dengarilah doa Remi ini….

Tentu kita jarang mendengar perbualan yang seperti ini… Mereka menjawab doa yang aku katakan dengan amin….Mereka turut berdoa agar doa ku menjadi kenyataan…

Alangkah baiknya jika kita turut mengucapkan perkataan sedemikian…Kita akan dapat mendoakan rakan-rakan kita dan yang tersayang..

Mulai kini, sebutlah amin bila sesiapa mendoakan kita…

Mawi: Aku tengok kau ni ada gaya la nak jadi jutawan satu hari nanti…

Nabil: Amin, Ya Allah makbulkanlah doa Mawi…..

My name hidden meaning

You Are Unique and Inspired


You are truly an original person. You have amazing ideas, and the power to carry them out.
Success comes rather easily for you… especially in business and academia.
Some people find you to be selfish and a bit overbearing. You’re a strong person.

You are usually the best at everything … you strive for perfection.
You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.
You have the classic “Type A” personality.

You are incredibly wise and perceptive. You have a lot of life experience.
You are a natural peacemaker, and you are especially good at helping others get along.
But keeping the peace in your own life is not easy. You see things very differently, and it’s hard to get you to budge.

You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You’re always up to something.
You have a ton of energy, and most people can’t handle you. You’re very intense.
You definitely are a handful, and you’re likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.
You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.
At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You are confident, self assured, and capable. You are not easily intimidated.
You master any and all skills easily. You don’t have to work hard for what you want.
You make your life out to be exactly how you want it. And you’ll knock down anyone who gets in your way!

You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It’s easy to get you excited… which can be a good or bad thing.
You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don’t stick with any one thing for very long.
You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.