I always talk to my mum when it comes to personal, perhaps i’m more comfortable with her talking bout this rather than my dad. I normally talk to my dad when it comes to career, life planning,financial planning etc.
So we were talking bout marriage. it was quite a long conversation, however I will just summarize it here.
My mum told me when I want to get married, please ensure my choice to has all these 3 conditions below:
1. She loves me more than I love her
2. She loves my family as well
3. She can accept and adapt to Kelantanese way of life
If she can fulfill all these three conditions, then my mum doesn’t have any more obligation against my choice.
Insyallah, I will find someone who can fulfill these three.. However, it depends on my instinct. Instinct never lies…